So, this article is being shared around my facebook feed, and I found it to actually be really good for a change (I typically think the relationship things I see online are completely bogus).
I’m a big believer in cultivating relationships, like one of the best lines of a Justin Bieber (I know, I’m super sorry, especially of recent events, geeze bad timing) song ever:
But the grass ain’t always greener on the other side, it’s green where you water it.
Honestly, never thought something that profound would come from the Biebs, but whatever. I looooove that line. It’s just so true. Anywho.
I’ve been in relationships that went on longer than they should’ve, but as I’ve mentioned previously, I’m stubborn. I don’t like regrets, and I don’t want to have to wonder if I didn’t do enough to try to make something work. Sometimes, that’s a terrible thing to do in a relationship, because you need to know when it’s not worth it anymore so you can cut your losses and move on. But most of the time, being too stubborn to give up on a relationship is a good thing.
The first time Monsieur P and I had a fight, he legitimately thought we were breaking up. He hadn’t been in a serious relationship before, and he thought that it was over because we were fighting. Even though it was a serious fight, that realization made me laugh and we took a teary timeout to hug it out. It’s funny, because looking back, I feel like that was A MOMENT in our relationship. Almost as much as the big things, moving in together, saying I love you, the proposal. That teary-hug-in-the-middle-of-the-fight moment said: we’re in it for the long haul.